Thanks. I was really stressed when I started this thread. Wife gave me a 3 month silent treatment this summer that ended in asking for a separation…she's going through some sort of mid life crisis it seems…meanwhile she has a lesbian friend who's spending *lots and lots* of time with her to the point I think something's up. I've been told several times not to confront this because I have no proof.

I'm feeling better these days. Really relieved the holidays are ending.