Thanks bowzz....

I've mostly been in denial about having "BPD traits" (2 doctors said it didnt exist and that I should just "cope" with my "problems" SIGH and offered NO help except for the help?? of a label) But recently I've been reading more about BPD and much of it really does fit..... especially the "frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment" I'm working on finding more appropriate tools to help me deal better and not mess up so badly or so frequently.....I feel I am making progress now despite my mood swings, depression etc........I won't give up hope anyway SIGH GROWL ...)