I think one of the reason why I feel so comfortable getting to know this man is because I don't have expectations of having a serious relationship with him because of his age. I feel the pressure is off of me to always have my best face on. He hasn't directly told me that he would like to take the next step and date me but my gut tells me that it could lead that way. I could read it in his body language. I have to consider that we did meet on our college campus and for his age 21 years old and I'm 25 it is expected of guys his age to get the attention from as many girls as possible. I have to be extra cautious and questions his intentions. I'm like this regardless of the age difference.
This is one thing that I'm so grateful for all females to have been born with and thats our intuition. Ladies, always listen to your gut feelings because more than likely it always comes out to be true.
Thanks everyone for your comments and sharing your experiences. I will keep everyone posted on how things worked out between this man and I.
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