Aria111, i feel so awful for the situation you're in, it must be so hard to handle all that at once. My sister comitted suicide when she was 17 and people just kind of thought alot of bad stuff about our family, I myself also had TBI from a few accidents i was in where i got head injuries. I will pray for you to be able to handle all of this, i really don't know how to help you, besides telling you i've been there before too and hopefully you can handle all this, good luck