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Oh I can relate to that big time,so much, spouses even though they love us and we love them, can have a knack for this sort of stuff, eh?
Interesting too, they seem to be born with a certain unwareness of our feelings at times, I keep in my heart that they do not do this intentionally, but it happens.
It sounds you can use some "hugs" about now, and a special day/nite set aside for you and hubby.
Maybe it wasn't ont the exact day, but can be a possibility when he returns. Also, ask for a day off for yourself,you deserve it.

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