One thing you might do is write a letter to the abusers....it is called, "Restorative Justice"--restorative justice says....this is what you did, this is how it made me feel. You might want to mention this to your t. I think it is empowering. Hugs, Nicole

P.S Try to put the shame where it belongs (not on YOU), but on the abusers...the shame belongs to THEM.