I can kind of relate to how you feel to a degree I don't think I have it as badly as you do.
I don't mean that in a mean way.....

its hard for me with my abandonment issues not get attached to men that I am attracted too.
Its even harder cause my relationship I am in now is really an odd one and the two of us have a lot of past history we have to work through while being in the midst of the relationship. Even now when I am away from him I think of him and miss him but I know taking my time with him....and distancing myself makes it even better in the long run.

In my mind I think if I distance myself from him and don't seem him all the time. Then when I do see him...it will make things between us even better. We like when we see each other more cause we distanced each other gave each other our own time to do our own things.

if you see each other everyday and over load each other....with attention things get duel and boring you have to find things to do in my life that spice things...up and make things fun and interesting...but just cause it works for me does not mean it works for everyone.