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I just had an ah-ha moment about the attorney and something my boss said. I'm struggling to put it into words...
He is all about power and control. Anything I do he either complains it's not done right, he blind sides me in court or he b!tches to my boss about it in front of me. Last Friday my boss told me that we are going to do whatever he wants.
This is the pattern of my childhood abuse all over again. My father would either change the rules with no warning, blast me out of nowhere for something I'd done or he would b!tch to my mother about me. Mom did nothing to protect me. The new boss' position was created to buffer counselors from the attorney. She's not doing anything to buffer us. Heck, she denies he is doing anything wrong.
OK, insight is all great and wonderful. Now I have to figure out what to do about it.
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