There have been times that he has "taken care of his own needs" in front of me in bed and has woken me up. Most of the time I don't say anything because it is an uncomfortable topic but the couple of time I have said something he says he wasn't doing anything. About a month ago I woke up to him doing this while looking at something on his iPhone. I assume it was porn. He wouldn't admit it. I know that most people do this at some time or another, so that's not the issue. The issue is that he is not doing it in private.

Today I am shocked and somewhat disgusted. We were in the living room with the kids. The kids are watching Looney Tunes. My husband had his laptop on his lap, open. I happened to glance his way and there he was going at it. He was definitely not scratching an itch. That doesn't last 10 minutes with different intensities and breathing patterns. I know he went all the way to orgasm because I am not stupid and I have heard him do it before.

Right in front of the kids. What if they asked what he was doing? They didn't notice what he was doing, I think. I hope. I am glad they didn't see his computer screen. When he was done, he happily got up and went into the kitchen to make breakfast for the kids.

WTF!? What was he looking at on his computer? Of course it was probably a porn video on mute, but I can't help but think he has an online "relationship" with someone. But come on, in front of the kids right in the living room?!