the biggest for me was when I told my dad I had been sexually assaulted when I was 11 and he did not believe me. Fast forward 20 years when the police were looking for me as a victim of this pedophile. my dad never did apologize for not believing me, his comments was "how was I supposed to know?" Maybe because your daughter told you!!!

And for those who are curious, my abuser was convicted and received a sentence of 6 years. The police know that there were more victims then the 3 he was convicted of, as far as I know there have been no more convictions and he is out of jail.