I went to therapy this morning, I've been going now for almost a month.
The T and I have a plan, I'm suppose to invite him to therapy, i'll do it during lunch so after the invitation he has to go back to work and "act normal". Besides, I'm having lunch with him at a public place where he'll have no choice but to behaive.
I'll be prepared at home when he makes it at the end of the day, just in case he "acts up" lo leave with the children. If he doesn't act up, we'll start therapy Friday, still with the goal of creating a healthy envornment for the children (but with personal plans of ending the marriage). We've been the therapy route before, we've done the marriage enrichment stuff, etc. This is just a plan to as peacefully as possible end the marriage.
Also, I'll be calling the program for victims of domestic violence at 3 PM, to start using their services, just in case.

gab