I have been in touch with mine though it is about side effects of new meds so he knows he is the only person responsible for that since it is a two week break and we started just before. Not a good time to leave without some space for check in. But he has also asked about mood and how I'm doing so he is doing the therapist thing with me as well. He doesn't mind the contact. He knows that I respect his time off with his family and don't want to bother him.