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Dec 27, 2013, 08:41 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2012
Location: California
Posts: 2,248
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Originally Posted by CrimsonBlues
... I felt like I was losing my mind with his personality swings because he would typically insist that I was imagining the changes-even though they were so blatant-and that my imagination came from the abuse in my past, not what he was doing. ....
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BTDT! and I agree with those above who said you showed great strength and wisdom by leaving.
I didn't do the first leaving, but I also didn't return when invited under conditions that I thought would continue what hadn't been working. And she would run hot and cold, and deny things that clearly were true - very unaware of herself! It's been really really hard. And sometimes I feel like I'm losing my mind, so how you feel makes sense to me.
I haven't resolved it yet, but I do feel good about not going back.
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