I'm really sorry that he's doing that. It sounds super inappropriate and I'd be really uncomfortable too. Actually, with my PTSD, I'd probably sock him in the jaw if he tried to touch me.

I really don't know anything about how to deal with stuff like that in the workplace. But I was having a situation today where I really needed to talk to my T. I asked myself what she would tell me to do if I could tell her. She'd tell me not to hole myself up in my room and to go out with people and do stuff to get the thing that is bothering me off of my mind. She'd tell me I have a right to feel the way I do and that I have a valid concern. I tried to allow this image of her in my mind to talk me through managing my overwhelming feelings and it worked. Is that something you could try? What do you think she would tell you to do to make dealing with the feelings easier?