Ok, so my ex came into my place of work all smiley and wishing my Merry Christmas today- I straight up scowled and ignored him- he wasn't even in line.
I then check my phone and I had a text from him saying he 'just wanted to wish me a
merry' (literally those were his words, he didn't use a complete sentence)
Anyway, so I text him back: Leave me alone, my friends want me to report you (i.e. for the rape) and file a restraining order against you. Maybe I should?
He since then hasn't texted me back

I know what you are going to say, hey, why don't you change your number- I already did that with the ex from before - and he has finally left me alone, (aside from a rare email here and there) so I don't really want to have to do it again. As I said, my friends and I are sending him bad joo joo (bad luck, etc) his way- especially if I tell my new boyfriend- no- he's not going to beat him up . .. we both just believe in the power of karma and collective thought.