Her mom doesn't want to help pay for her daughter wedding. But her dad is willing to help out. And my fiancee's mother is hoarding money from my fiancee and her mother is expecting to pay her back just for helping her. Her mother doesn't want her to move out, live together with me. And to live on her own. What is my fiancee supposed to do? I'm putting on too miles on my car. We live opposite ends of the county. We both get SS. I work two part time jobs. My fiancee doesn't work cause of epilepsy. No major seizures since her surgery back in 2009 and diet for two years.