When someone says "obsessed", I think about something that is more preoccupied than just thinking about T every day. I think about my T all the time. I personally don't think I'm obsessed. She's just a main character in my life right now.

But even if you are, that's okay. I told T once that I was sorry for being clingy. She laughed and said that she's glad I'm experiencing being clingy in an appropriate place where we can observe that and work through it together BEFORE I drive a future boyfriend insane. You're supposed to have problems and then work on it. If you're way too preoccupied with your T, that's good because you have something to address with her, find the root of the cause, and attempt to fix it.