I have a promblem...My husband is one of 13 and in the recent years there has been a few deaths in his family including his Mother. She led a long life.. But there is a Sister and for the 20 yrs I have been in the family They have all babied her...Alot due to the fact of his Mother saying that Sandi needs help...
Help yes....She is a drunk and a thief...
This winter after the death of his Mother another sister showed up with her 13 yr old girl and we let them stay here..This sister is eating Xanx and drinking stright wiskey and can't move off the couch....Well, while she was here here comes Sandi...I told my husband that they had to go. But being family he let them stay.. In the time they were here my wedding rings came up missing and other things in the house also came up missing... And still they would not leave...
So, I packed my stuff and left. He finally made them leave. So, I came back home...
Bev is fine she eats her pills and drinks and stays away.
Sandi has lost her home her daugher and has no job. And moved in with these people who are more or less treating her like a slave. But this is her choice to lay drunk..
She called me the other night and said, I want to come home...I said. You have no home....She said...I need my family and I want to come home....I told her NO WAY....She was not comming back in my home! When I told my husband this his heart is breaking for his sister...I can see in his eyes that he will let her come here if he gets the chance to talk to her. I intercept these calls so that she doesn't get the chance. But in case she does what the heck will I do If he lets her in my home....
I know family is family....But I can't take this anymore and I will have to pack and leave if she shows up at my door....She refuses treatment so in my eyes there is no help for her till she helps her self..... am I wrong for this thinking?