After outing my "brother" as my abuser to my family and declaring a "No Contact" rule with him and anyone who even tries to change my mind.... This was a response I received after voicing my disgust at being tagged in FB pics:

"Well nobody told you not to join us for Christmas or New Years, you chose to be alone. You're always welcome to join in, you know this"

AAaaaaaaaaaah am I the only one with a fricken brain in this familyyyyy????
Seriously!!!