I was obsessed, and thought it was unnatural. My therapist explained that it was mostly transference and it was normal. I'm Out of therapy now, and my mind is focused on so many other things. Before therapy I couldn't focus on too much of anything. I'm on vacation with my family at the moment, and I find myself calling on her in my head more to get through some of the rougher moments. Its working because I haven't felt the need to change my plane ticket, and head back home earlier than planned. Also, I'm not emailing or calling her.