writing is big for me. i have a hard time communicating through spoken word...usually if i have to talk to someone about something important, i write it down and study it first...if im able to (without feeling like a cop out), ill send an email or text or some other written thing to get the convo started and as many of my ideas out as i can...i also try to cover any questions i think the person may ask, so if we have to follow up, it doesnt have to be a long convo...i tend to lose my words, stutter, get really nervous when i have to talk. even in my job (early childhood), i have to talk to parents when they pick up their children and im going over those words in my head over and over and over...practicing before they get there...because i cant stop to write everything i want to say to each parent, i end up with a bunch of things that play repeatedly in my brain. im probably just babbling now //end