Sounds like a real breakthrough! Thats great.
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Originally Posted by rainbow8
I've discussed this problem before, about not listening, but last week I understood what I do, so much better. I have so much to say, and I'm also so anxious, that I'm thinking ahead, and I'm not mindful of my T or of other people.
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This I get, I think I spend far too much time planning what I might say next that I don't actually always HEAR what someone is saying to me. For me I think it is anxiety about making sure that I don't look stupid, that I have something worthwhile to add to a conversation, definately a place of work for me. also thinking about it now, I recognise that I just "drift away" and don't actually hear what is being said, I think its anxiety again, although not sure.
Thankyou for posting this.....really worth thinking about!