dude i once agian dont think you get it so fill a bag of sand (15lb) and carry it around alday work clean puta close pin on your nipple for 30min every few hrs. oh jog to the store to get that milk... inject yourself with whatever hormone imbalances occur in women aftre child birth. and yes in a year most of her problems will go away on threir own but will yours i still havent gotten over your referral to your baby as less than alive try giving him/her a bath and enjoy better yet embrace the changes in your life. if you dont well youll be sorry