boyfriend said I couldn't lose weight because of I didn't spend time with him I would just sit on the couch and eat. but he, who is out of work and alone all day, is depressed and just wants to drink beer when I get home. I can't wake up in time to exercise in the morning, so I want to exercise when I get home. so I either try to make him feel better or" ignore" him. I feel like I can't win. I decided I am going to do what I want, I'm just nervous I will alienate him. that sucks so much. so much.