you know, Checkers, you got a lot more responses than some threads do and plenty of good suggestions.

i actually agree with "justaguy" because being pregnant and having a baby and breastfeeding is very hard. how much have you done to look at it from that perspective?

and i do applaud the fact that you're working on it, but after reading your answer to "justaguy"......i'm not sure that i feel like i am getting the whole story on the marriage. i may be wrong and we can talk about it......do you have a short fuse? xoxox pat