Confronting someone by letter when your angry is better then perhaps coming across as agressive. Don't you think? I learnt the hard way, but thats another story. Haha. And yes even by letter you'd have to confront her but it'd be the letter that was doing the talking, not your mouth therefore it has a bigger chance of coming across in a better way then if you said it. I know when i'm annoyed at someone, even though I don't want to I get real angry and I can't let go. But I found if I do things via letter, it goes a little better.

Personally, I wouldn't quit. No matter how hard it got and I understand that starting over is hard, I really do. I've had to start over with psychiatrists five times over already and tired of it. But I keep trying. Because if you keep trying you'll eventually find the right one that fits! And oh boy is it rewarding when that happens. As I said though, its up to you to what you want to do as its your life and I'm sure all of us on here, will support you in whatever you do. But choose wisely, then again you probably know to choose wisely