You are entitled to have help. Just sometimes, help is rather hard to get right. It takes the right person, right time, right state of mind and all sorts of right 'things'. Good for you for trying though!

Also look at the whole closure session on an old relationship suggestion. I'm not sure if it'll work but in your case, I think anything is worth a go? And I'm no expert, but if no one is willing to try. No one will get anywhere. My last phycratrist, didn't even want to try with me. He didn't give a damn. But I still tried. Let me know how it goes. If all else fails, get a new t if you possibly can. Just keep telling them, about your situation and hopefully they'll know you really did try hard to get along with this t. Maybe you need a goal. Maybe you need to try to find a t that will do it in a different way to the rest of them? Trying something new is scary, but can be also a good thing.