oh lol i didnt understand when u told me u had added.. now i see it..
she just will say she has no probs with me lol i dont think she wants a relationship... there is no connection there.. never was. she has no empathy for me lol
lol cursing... im already used to it... it seems is home policy which had NEVER happened to me before. the other one would warn me too but u could see there was quite a difference in behavior. she was still sweet when she warned me. this one just acts like a bi.tch about it. i keep swearing anyway lol even though sometimes i do it quietly.
her seeing the way i come out of sessions wouldnt be HER PLACE to make sure i wasnt mad? or something about her?
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Originally Posted by Hoppery
EDIT: I've had a bit of a think about your situation. If you choose to write a letter and give it to her, and find that it doesn't work. Perhaps, you could take a look at writing what your problems are with her down and her problems with you. Then swap them. I do think you should at least give it ago because what we have to work with here is limited. If that doesn't work, another thing I can think of is if you haven't already, ask your t can you both work on building your relationships up before you work on the stuff that you need to work on.
If the suggestions above fail, you could try this:
I think what you need to work on your relationship with your t is for her to accept that you use curse words to express yourself. And that you both must be willing to forgive one another and put the past behind you, to try to start the relationship again. But before you do this, perhaps do a sort of 'closure' session about the old relationship you shared and what the problems were and what you could both work on in not letting it happen again. Although, both of you need to be respectful to one another when doing this so it doesn't turn offensive.
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