I also think.your T has her walls up and is trying to keep therapy about you. She said "its not liking you...", that means its not about her opinion of you, but how she can best help you. That is what therapy is about. They may not be someone we'd want to hang out with but they can still be very helpful to us.

Also, If she is sensing anger or aggression on your end (I only say this because you point out she doesn't like you to swear, and tells you to knock it of or she'll end session) then she will set limits on what is said in session based on her comfort level or how safe she feels. You don't say if you are just swearing or swearing at her - they are two different things and I'm not sure of the context.

If she is inexperienced as you say she may not know how to handle the situation (i think youd be better off with a seasoned T). But you clearly have strong negative feelings about your relationship with her and this can't be helpful to you. I wish I could offer more advice.