u know my first T would tell me that "this is about u not me" whenever i showed interest in her life. still she wouldnt be a bit.ch when i cussed (which btw is about my life not at her obviously!!!) she wouldnt even care about it!!! and would show she cared about me!!!! if i have negative feelings is because of her not me. and if u trying to go there explain why i get along really well with other T of the same place or other Ts i had for that matter!!! u talking to me like is my 1st rodeo! if i could tell her to **** off i would in heart beat caz I KNOW for fact she is doing s.hit. im just putting up with this caz i have no choice.