I am often like this with my bf (and I was with my ex-hub as well). I hear him say or do something, and they say that I look at them with disgust {no better word for it apparently}. However, I am completely unaware of this in that moment.

In retrospect, I can see where I was irritated at that time. I can even recall moments when I was absolutely disgusted by my ex-hub, and my current bf.