Elektra,
I'm very sorry. I didn't mean to imply anything about you at all. I was just trying to come up with different reasons to explain the way she responds to you.

If its just comes down to her being b****y and completely unhelpful, then you should address it fast. You can tell her you've thought about terminating and see if that opens up any conversation with her about why. Then maybe she'll get where you are coming from or help you find a new T.