yes that is what i am doing is the tough love.....it is so much easier for me but for him it hurts.....like i told her.....i let my brother stay here and he stole from me and he is no longer welcome in my home and neither is she..... she said, that i am mean to her.... i told her no i just don't put up with her ******....
if she wants to lay in the gutter than so be it...
I went an begged for her a place to stay this winter so i wouldn't have to throw her out on the streets and even borrowed 100 dollars (my husband and I wan't working) for the deposit on a room at the Y and she left there and drank the l00 dollars up....
Then she called and wanted to come stay here again.
I am just scared if my husband talks to her he won't be tuff on her....