Meachie, one idea that I really like is having a coping bank. You can find out more about this at <A target="_blank" HREF=http://www.something-fishy.org/reach/copingbank.php>http://www.something-fishy.org/reach/copingbank.php</A> . Food (overeating, purging, even not eating) can be a way to cope with feelings of depression, loneliness, anxiety, or anything else we have trouble facing. A coping bank is a way to keep healthier coping machanisms handy for when you are heading toward something negative.

mj

<font color=green> If she spins fast enough then maybe the broken pieces of her heart will stay together, but even a gyroscope can't spin forever</font color=green>