Not only Ts do that. It's how my H thinks, and he is not a T. And I never tell him about my problems or that I feel less than wonderful, if I can avoid it. He means well, of course, but it is annoying all the same, and tiring. My T maybe thinks he can fix or guide everything, but he does not show it - I don't think a T should talk as if they always know what's best for the client. (I don't think spouses should do it either. )