option two. why? cuz. no real reason. just years of experience. our guess from thousands of miles away.

sorry it got everything all in a jumble but as you said these things happen.

doesn't mean you have to be all zenlike and accepting and happy......pitch a fit, get it out, and then calmly reassess where you're at and what y'all want.

stick with it please. don't make us plead. it isn't the time to drop it all just cuz. we'll out cuz you reason for reason so please just save us both headache and try. ((ak et al))
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