Kathy,
This is going to sound horrible and I do not mean it to. Some people can only be helped so far. It is very obvious that your family has done so much to try to help to no avail. I mean you tried to give her money for a room deposit and she used it for alcohol. I am a believer that you can be supportive to the extent that your like is not in danger of having problems. I hope that she does decide to take control over her life. Because in the end she is the one who needs to help herself.

Jessica

<font color=blue> You are in this snowglobe. It is encovered in glass and secure. But one day someone comes and shakes the globe and the pieces go flying everywhere. Now they will eventually settle but they won't be the way they were before and they can never be that way again. </font color=blue>