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(from Rose76): I think he's starting to maybe realize that I just don't care that much about appearance. I never did, except going to work, or to a special social occasion. I guess I would have to agree that it probably is a sign of a lack of interest in life
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I think that's an interesting theory, thanks for that. I've read somewhere that when you wear clothes that you like, it will influence you to feel good about yourself. So maybe those that feel good about themselves believe that it's worth the time and effort for their appearance? Of course, that's an overgeneralization. It's probably true for me somewhat though, as I've begun to care less about my appearance this past year and actually started wearing less interesting things to therapy than I used to. It worries me that my T may notice this about me because it's kind of a sensitive issue- my family has been pressuring me to be in a relationship, and my father sometimes comments on my weight in a negative way as if to insinuate that is why I haven't found someone, even though I'm a healthy weight.