don't know how. Things have gotten so screwed up in our almost 30 year marriage for same reasons and then some that I'm affraid to even touch on the subject cuz in all honesty I just don't think it will ever happen agin here. Want it to on one hand and on another don't and then other opinions on the side. Oh yes this is just way fun. NOT!
Srry! hope things work out for you and your hubby.