Thank YOU for the reply...... and while I spent eight straight years in therapy - I am without a T at the present moment.... we both felt that I was ready to step out on my own to make life work again, learning more as I go along the path set before me.

If one was to ask ME -
I personally do not believe that any sexually abused child / person will ever be 100% without effects of the abuse interfering in their present life.... this type of abuse just seems to dig deep and attach its self to your core being..... especially when repeated and repeated over time - and with a sick mind of the abuser.


LoVe,
Rhapsody -