I am struggling at the moment to come to terms with a revelation. It is not new news, rather old news. T told me pretty early on that my ex was a psychopath but I didn't want to believe it. Especially when t told me she never loved me- it hurt like hell but recently I read a book about psychopaths and it all makes perfect sense. She was evil but I couldn't face the truth and believe that I let evil get that close to me. My ex girlfriend followed all of the steps that a psychopath uses to prey on their next victims. T didn't tell me this as I think when I didn't respond and refused to believe she was one, t let it go but she has been going through all the steps with me, unbeknownst to myself.
Now that I can finally see what happened and realise I am not crazy or a bad person as t had been patiently telling me for the past year. I feel relief but also disgusted at myself for allowing her to do all of that to me.
I don't know how to bring this up with t with out looking disrespectful, as in I believe you now because I read a book. Does anyone have any suggestions, all welcome


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