most of what I read suggests that the people you are describing are physcopaths not anti-socials. Anti-social people can have anxiety and since I have ptsd that would fit. Also you don't know a lot about my life, what I put here isn't much to go on lol. Also even physcopaths can have anxiety as you get paranoid physcopaths lol.....
oh and same problem but this time I tried to google belaboured normalacy... that would mean its hard for someone to .. idk take showers, eat have normal routine right? without more effort than others? the thing I read about that was talking about physcopaths but it struck me since I'm very bad with routines and doing a lot of normal things though I doubt I could do really bad things with no conscience here I'll put link. and copy the bit I mean...
3. Belaboured normalcy and effortless deviance: Actions that are reflexive, or effortless with normal, healthy people require an inordinate amount of premeditation, concentration, planning, and laborious investment by the psychopath. Acts that normal folk would find abhorrent come naturally and effortlessly to the psychopath.
The Psychopath and Antisocial