That, or if you know someone who IS in the same state, and semi-nearby, if they could go over and just hang out with the friend. I know sometimes feeling so hopeless is accompanied by the feeling of loneliness and the feeling that you matter to no one, so no one would miss you if you were gone. The person wouldn't need to do anything, just go and be there with them.

Good luck, it's a rough place to be in.