I definitely agree with Rohag. The important thing though, is to talk to HER. I have had personal experience where a friend of mine in another state thought i was going to kill myself because I had said something in an email that somehow led him to think that. However, instead of talking to me, he immediately called the upd(university police dept.) saying he was concerned and thought i was going to commit suicide. I however, was NOT and was actually having a great day(until then)! It really made me mad and upset with him for not even TRYING to talk to me. and what ended up hapening was his idea of showing me he cared, turned into a very stressful situation for me, my parents, my entire family, AND my room mates!