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Dec 31, 2013, 06:26 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2013
Location: Boston, Mass.
Posts: 43
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Nycgal448; I'm so sorry to hear of your pain and conflict with your mother. You didn't mention your age but it sounds like your younger and live with her. It also sounds like you SI. I can relate to that pain of scratching and have the scars to prove it. I wish I could reassure you that you are worth more than what you are thinking from what you're saying your mother calls you. You don't deserve to be called those names no matter what. It's quite possible that your mom is putting her own insecurities onto you without her even realizing it. Sometimes parents lash out at their kids because they feel "safe" doing that since they feel their children will always be there for them, regardless. Unfortunately, life doesn't work that way and your mother will someday have regrets. Have you confronted her? Are there any other people living with you? Stay safe and believe that you are better than that. 
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