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Old Dec 31, 2013, 11:35 PM
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Originally Posted by PeachCream22 View Post

I don't know how sincere this is. But I guess I'm just asking, what am i supposed to do? Don't think too much about the messages? Why is he still contacting me? I'd like him to shut up and get lost, but it's not my nature to be so mean. But don't expect me to get all happy and friendly when he's around..
That's how we get sucked back into these roller coasters. Wanting to say one, thing, but not part of the nature of being 'mean'. Tough Love, isn't about being 'mean' however, it's about self preservation. So that you don't get walked all over. Of course, it feels like a half-hearted apology. He blatantly 'forgot' he blocked you on fb, then used someone, I need to highlight 'used' someone here, to contact you and relay the message. If you don't accept, then now you are in the position of answering your choices to your friend. See, how twisted, it's becoming?

Don't know why he's contacting, you, he needs to answer that for himself.

You may, act, in whatever way, your instincts tell you to act upon this.

Thanks for this!
PeachCream22