Friends never came easy to me either. I don't have any freinds in the trust them with your life sense, but a few in the good to see you sense. Few meaning I could count them on one hand. I have never be a trusting or out going person and that was and is the problem. Two important thing I find for a true freind are common ground and interest, and a mutual respect for one another. I had a freind in high school were the only thing we had In common was fishing.