I met mine online too. She was living in another county but moved here so she could keep a closer eye on me. She stalked me at first. I didn't even have any feelings for her and at the first date I told her I wasn't ready for a relationship, she cried and threatened Sui, I felt so bad but didn't know what to do as it was my first relationship with male or female. She text constantly, would show up in my work- she drove miles if I didn't answer a text, she would ring my work to check I was there and not seeing anybody else. I never told her where I worked- she checked online. I guess there were huge red flags but I didn't trust my instinct, I did think this is not right. She was older by nearly ten years and have many other partners so I trusted her.
When you say your girlfriend was in therapy, do you know this for a fact? I ask because t said and I read that psychopaths will not go to therapy unless forced and only then will stay for one or two sessions, as they lack empathy or any remorse.

I am not doubting you, just curious my ex told me she went to therapy too, I did believe her but I don't now as everything she said was carefully constructed for me to feel sorry for her. She was always the victim in relationships- others cheated and abused her. As it turns out she cheated and abused them.
Elevated, I am sorry you went through similar. Perhaps of you talked about it, with a t or here if you like it could clear up some of the confusion that you feel after being hit by a psychopath.
Me and my ex have no communication after she was done with me and moved on to the next victim- for this I am grateful now but straight afterwards I didn't understand how someone could be so cruel if they loved someone but truth is she never loved me because she can't love anyone.
I am worried because after Christmas I will have to see her again and this scares me because it is out of my control

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