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Originally Posted by hankster
I can hear stopdog saying: i dont WANT to connect to this person. That's not my point. That to me is like signing up for a personal trainer then saying you dont want to go to the gym or whatever. So lets assume you are MOTIVATED to connect. Then what are the FEEEEEELINGS that inhibit you? That make it feel bad or dangerous or even just uncomfortable? That's where i am, how i see it.
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I did not choose to go to therapy in order to connect with a therapist.
So in your example, I might sign up for a personal trainer to explain how gym equipment works, not to be personally trained or in order to go to the gym or to lose weight or whatever.