THat's a totally normal feeling, your values can never be wrong, they are yours. Hey if you ahve trouble making friends, I wouldn't say you are flawed but I would think of it as; you are just in the wrong place. There are many types of people, introverts and extroverts etc. I go through many just to find 1 friend and most times I lose contact with them. Yes.. unfortunately, people will not like your views, opinions, or even you, but many more will like you and your views. I can't make everyone like me, and I can't stop people from hating me - I accept that now and it toook me a long time. You are not selfish; everyone wants to be happy and it's good for you and eventually good for everyone around you. If you're struggling internally, please give yourself all the time and effort you need until you feel good about yourself, because to give to others, you first need to give to yourself. Life is a work in progress, you have bad days and you have good days.